Anonymous asked: Really good advice for the anon who asked about relationships. I find myself asking the same question sometimes. Is it possible to deeply love someone and just not feel connected anymore?
Thanks, I hope I can use some of my experiences to help others. But yes you can deeply love someone and not feel as connected anymore. Think about a good friend or even a sibling you haven’t seen in a while, you still love them as much as you always have but you feel less a part of their lives because you have drifted. The same thing happens in a relationship where you have stopped putting in effort to stay close emotionally and now you have drifted. Now you have to do the same thing to fix this relationship. Put in the extra effort, and make your partner the number one priority. You can never forget that love can be forever but it can easily die when you don’t put in the work or think we “have” someone so now the work is over.